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Terry
E. Gahm's study of hypnosis began very early, although he didn't
realize it. The son of a true WWII hero, Terry was exposed to one
of the most traumatic forms of altered reality that one can endure,
a severely debilitating mental disease recognized today as Post Traumatic
Stress Disorder. At the time, a PTSD episode was regarded as nothing
other than "a bad day of bad memories. But as a child, Terry had
to live with the truth, a father with two personalities. The first
was a charismatic war hero who would entertain and motivate others
and could pick up the spirits of everyone in the room. But at home,
his father would become a completely different person. A very violent,
suicidal ex-soldier with horrific long-buried memories who could
not overcome his depression.
The only situation that
could snap him into becoming ''the good dad'' was created by the
suspended reality of celebration
at an event or party, where the entertainer war-hero father would
revel himself to the delight of those strangers around him. As a
youngster seeking a way to make his father happy, Terry found a way...
music. A straight "A" student (Terry was his high school valedictorian),
he chose to dedicate all extra time to the study of music. "I originally
learned to play keyboards as my own escape from my father’s dark
side. When I would play music, dad's personality would immediately
change, especially with company around. The celebratory situation
would take him away from his past and into a completely different
world of joy and love. Without that stimulus, he couldn't do it
for himself. Looking back, it was then I learned what would become
the career study of my life - how to help people find an alternate
reality and the incredible positive changes that are possible when
one is brought into another psychological focus.
Terry's circumstances and
interest in helping others overcome tragedy led him to choose a
Jesuit college, Creighton University
in Omaha, Nebraska. He enrolled in Creighton's highly regarded ROTC
officer training program. "I wanted to carry on my father's legacy
in honor of his outstanding military record." Terry gave ROTC his
full effort, eventually becoming a First Lieutenant in Vietnam, at
one point leading an entire company of 180 men. That's when his
life's study of alternative realities became deadly serious.
Gahm explained, ''The only
true horror of the Vietnam War wasn't just men dying; it included
the severe drug problem that
evolved among those surviving. There were mainly two drugs the troops
were using, pot and heroin. Unfortunately, military police and dogs
would easily identify and confiscate the pot. That left a modifying
truth none of the officers wanted to talk about, but knew to be true. There
was a huge growing contingency of boys, good clean cut kids from
good families, who came into Vietnam to fight for their country,
and were leaving as severe heroin addicts. For the first time I
understood what my father had been through. On the frontlines, the
war was one big horrifying nightmare, but back in the hometowns,
most people viewed the war as an ''embarrassment'' for our country,
almost like a skeleton in the closet. The only difference was that
some of these ''embarrassments'' would die while doing their job
for our country. No one wanted to hear the despicable truth. A
never-ending nightmare that could only be relieved by an occasional
break that usually involved the soldier's ingesting any drug that
was available to them. Unfortunately, the most available drug was
heroin - very pure heroin at that. These kids were seriously addicted
and no one wanted to talk about it.""
However, Terry's life- effort
of trying to help those in severe distress wouldn't allow him to
just sit back and watch
young boys decay, many who he saw as younger versions of his dad. "I
just couldn't look the other way. I knew what would happen to these
boys if they returned home as drug addicts. Even though my father
and other past US soldiers had been abandoned, at least they were
regarded as heroes. But for these kids to return home as soldiers
of a ''lost'' war, and as drug addicts, would ruin the rest of their
lives."
Terry described his frustration
with the "politically
correct" directive that US politicians invented to sweep the massively
growing drug epidemic under the rug, "All officers were directed
to allow soldiers to "confess" their drug problem and enter an "Amnesty
Program." In reality, this program was politically motivated and
internally compromised. Most who entered became worse. These boys
would be forced to return home in shame and addicted to drugs. Many
would wind up on the streets of America, unwelcome in their own hometowns. After
a life of watching my father trying to cope with post war trauma
(without a heroin addiction), I couldn't let these young men be treated
that way, It was a sure ticket to a life of hell back home. I had
to do something to help them."
Terry took matters into
his own hands, and made a decision that would risk everything. Lieutenant Terry E. Gahm's military
career and any chance of a future career in the ministry were on
the line. By military law, he could have been in serious trouble,
yet he persevered, Terry knew that for these boys it was going to
take a lot more than his keyboard playing to take them out of their
severe drug addictions. So he developed a secret detox center, appointing
his own guards to secure the facility, and began to use a ''different''
type of treatment, an eastern form of therapy that he had witnessed
Asian doctors and caregivers use very effectively. It was a form
of meditation, although much more elaborate.
Gahm recalls, "They didn't call it "hypnosis" by name,
but that's what it was. And, was it ever powerful! I saw guys who
had been described as hopeless using it effectively for pain, sickness
and even strength. The most incredible thing I witnessed was the
complete change of personality that would occur when these boys went
into trance. They would transform from being severely depressed
and suicidal soldiers, into the young "boyish" personalities they
had exhibited when they first came to Vietnam. And those who would
go deepest, came off the drugs easier and faster. It was like watching
magic!"
Eventually military authorities
became aware of Gahm's private detox operation and immediately
shut down the activity, bringing
Lieutenant Gahm before a military inquiry, "By all military protocol
I should have been brought up on charges, but I wasn't even formally
cited. The whole incident was just swept under the rug. I was never
given any reason, but all involved had a pretty good idea why. They
just wanted the whole thing hushed up. My hypnosis detox center
had worked better than anything the US military doctors had ever
attempted. They let me go free with a pledge that I wouldn't talk
about the "witch doctoring" that had proven so effective. It was
vastly superior to the Amnesty Program, which they all knew had been
a disastrous failure, but no one was going to risk acknowledging
this fact."
Gahm left the service disgusted
and distraught. He
was discharged as a decorated officer, just like his dad. However,
just like his dad, he also became a disturbed and angry ex-US soldier. Even
more upsetting, Terry returned home to the disgraceful treatment
that welcomed Vietnam Veterans. "I remember trying to attend an American
Legion club meeting, hoping to interact with other guys like myself. Instead,
I was refused entry and told that Vietnam Vets were NOT permitted
into their American Legion Club because we had lost "our" war! That
broke my spirit completely. I gave up all my dreams of the Ministry
and anything else that a former valedictorian with a degree from
Creighton University would expect to accomplish. I swore that I
would not let myself become my father, doing the responsible thing
on the outside, but miserable and unhappy on the inside, living a
lie. Instead I decided to live my life in entertainment, something
with no serious consequences, where my only responsibility would
be to have fun with people."
So Terry Gahm the ''piano
player'' went on the road. It
wasn't long before he faced the realization that simply playing music
couldn't bring him the happiness it had when he was young. The events
of the war still haunted him. "I learned that just pretending I
was happy wouldn't work, I had to talk about it. I needed to tell
others what a lie war was and what "loyal military service" really
did to our soldiers." Terry moved to New York City and became e.g.
Terry, a ''politically angry comedian." His therapy became making
fun of the hypocrisies of war, big business, and government.
Then in 1982 Gahm was hit
with the shock of his life. Terry's
father woke up one day, placed a shotgun into his own mouth and blew
the back of his head off. That unspeakable tragedy would change
Terry's life forever. "That was the impact tragedy of my life. I
had spent most of my youth trying to learn how to help my father
find some kind of happiness. Then I spent my adult life trying to
overcome the same frustrations my father had experienced. I was
overwhelmed with guilt and pain. I felt that I had abandoned my
father when I could have helped him most, by convincing myself he
had gotten over it, as I thought I had. But it wasn't true. It
brought everything back and I experienced tremendous anxiety and
shame."
Gahm describes the transition
he experienced following his father's suicide as miraculous, ''I
could not continue to live
my life as I had been living. I could no longer repress my original
goals and my true life's dream. The only way I was ever going to
beat those demons would be to challenge them head on. I set out
to learn all I could about what I had encountered in Vietnam, It
was the only real therapy I had ever seen work, and I wanted to learn
all I could about this amazing procedure called hypnosis."
Terry initiated a full time
study of hypnosis and by 1985 became nationally accredited as a
Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. He
immediately began his now legendary career in hypnosis. Gahm was
committed to apply his new found wisdom with the same instincts and
courage he had followed as a military officer; his way ... trusting
his own instincts. "After my assignment in Vietnam, and in memory
of my father's life-long battle with psychosis, I committed myself
to always find the entertainment factor in every hypnotherapy program
I provide. My experiences with my father taught me something I'll
never forget. When we are entertained, we are experiencing that
''moment in time," and are building new positive memories, not suffering
from past negative memories. If I can teach my patients to become
entertained while working, in relationships or even through hardships
- if I can teach them how to find enjoyment in those moments, by
entertaining themselves and others - then they can learn to overcome
anything in their lives. The power to laugh in the face of danger,
and the ability to discover "new" enjoyable adventures within our
present time circumstances, is truly the most powerful hypnosis in
the world. It brings tranquility and faith into most any situation. That
is the focus of my life's work. Once people can learn to hypnotize
themselves to see their life that way, they'll always have a full
life and a bright future, no matter what has happened to them in
their past."
Terry E. Gahm has studied
extensively, and continues to study with the greats in the world
of hypnosis. Mentors like
Ormond McGill, Gerald F. Kein, Robert Kennzington, and many others
have all contributed their own individual elements to Terry's incredible
and masterful presentation: It's Amazing! The Minds of American!
Terry loves to explain how
he ''entertains'' professionally to emphasize his philosophy. When
I do a hypnosis show, my purpose
is to demonstrate what incredible power our thoughts have over us. When
we focus on things that are positive we can enter any world we want. In
fact, any negative experiences we may have had, at that point only
provide more motivation to enjoy the present moment for exactly what
it is, a better moment in time, Today, Terry has found his better
moment in time. He met and fell in love with his beautiful wife,
Lori Sue, and settled down to enjoy a life of contentment. Together
they have raised three sons and have become successful and respected
business people. Terry's greatest regret is that he wasn't able
to help his father. "He had so much to offer, if he'd only known
how to let go of the past and explore his opportunities in the future,
a future he never let himself see. Maybe he too would have been
a survivor. It's a lesson that we can all learn and benefit from."
Terry's show, It's Amazing!
The Minds of America!, is a dynamic Hypnosis stage show dedicated
to his dad and presented
for all the unique people of our great country. Terry E. Gahm offers
Joy and Fun for everyone, as he illustrates his message with action,
not simple words, "The people of America are the stars and they truly
are amazing minds.
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